“ The quickest way to receive love is to give love. The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly.”
GOOD
FEELINGS FOSTER CLOSENESS.
HAPPINESS IN THE SELF IS MAINTAINED BY HAVING
GOOD
FEELINGS FOR OTHERS.
Pure vision for others is
possible when there are no bad feelings or negative reactions when challenged
or criticised.
Those
with clear conscience can flow in and out of situations unscathed and without
damaging others.
With
true feelings, we have the capacity to be independent which comes from being
ego-less.
If
I have the ego of being too attached to myself, then I am easily hurt and lack
confidence, and this manifests either in withdrawal or aggression.
An
independent person listens but is not influenced; he can come into situations
discerning what is needed, then behave appropriately.
Even
if someone defames me, I should continue to smile and have good feelings for
that person. Good feelings heal wounds and coming from our heart, bring
transformation.
Good
feeling is the ability to love and come close to others. When I have good
wishes for others, they are not afraid of me nor am I afraid of anyone because
there cannot be loss or damage, only love.
To
experience good wishes and blessings from others is to experience the richness
of life. The good wishes of others act as a booster in order to fulfil
what I set out to do and attain quick and easy progress.
Let
me see anyone as a diamond, each facet revealing a different strength or quality.
Even
when the diamond is encrusted by harsh memories, I look for the sparkle that
tells me of the real personality.
This
article from Bridget Menerez, appears every Mondays in The sun. She is
the author of Self-Empowerment and Spiritual Counsellor. Readers can email her
at bridgetmenerez@yahoo.com.
My
perception of love is that, so many good things that can transpires
people to act because of love. Love can turn ill heart into
something loveable. With love, it can change bad habits. Love teaches us
to be concern about the feelings of others and have a deep sense of
respect for people. Love too can transform our feelings to be passionate
towards people. Not only towards people, love for our pet too
teaches us to be caring.
It
is love too that binds two people together, that dares them through marriage,
so much so that it can lasts through decades. What is left after that are
memories that lingers in our heart and in our mind, for us to treasure.
Whatever
feelings that we have on love, let it be for a very good purpose and towards
building a positive attitude that can bind people together. Love does not
only for those that are visible to us, but also to our God and the
Prophet. Let us keep in mind of the love story Rabiatul Adawiyah had
towards The Almighty, Allah swt and the love of Bilal bin Rabbah on Prophet
Muhammad saw.......and may we be blessed with happiness....... till the end of
our life.
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